bdsm and what it's teaching me about power

sooooooo, here’s a thing i have yet to write about. it feels a little risky because it’s pretty taboo in some of the spaces i grew up in or still find myself in. that said, i think the reason to talk about it is because it’s the people in those spaces that make the our society all the worse because we can’t talk about the ideas and tools that would help us understand a lot more about what people want and need and how to make it all happen well. and that, i’m beginning to believe, is causing a massive psychic disconnect for many people in our ridiculous little american society.

so, for starters, the topic is bdsm.

some helpful things i’ve learned in this space are:

ok. enough for now. more later.

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