relationship recovery time: retrograde shadows

i’ve heard a few folks talk about a rule of thumb to estimate the time of healing after the end of a relationship (this is mostly in the context of romantic relationship but it might also apply to friendship, family, etc.). i think the range of times i’ve heard is half the length of the relationship up to the entire length of it. meaning, if you are in relationship with someone for a year, it will take between 6 month and a year to heal from it.

book review: the communist manifesto by karl marx & friedrich engels

note: nadav pointed out to me on 29 nov that something was wrong with this blog post. it seems that i somehow overwrote my book review. idk if i will ever rewrite it because i didn’t think the book was that great :grimmace emoji: we’ll see…

happy "no new things" day 2022!

preface: if you’re curious in the evolution of this experiment/thought/practice, here are the last 3 posts about it: 2021, 2020, 2019.

metaphor: leaves changing colors in fall

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sit time from mother earth

during covid we saw the air water and animals return. we should rmbr that it actually doesn’t take that long for natural systems to recover if we just let it happen