"less prep, more presence" doesn't mean no prep

i was just in a brief check-in (via pompod) with the esteemed danielle coates-connor and we stumbled into a hilarious but important conversation:

on dysfunctional rescuing

dysfunctional rescuing is a term i think i’ve heard here and there over the years but i’ve mostly learned about it in relationship with my friend and co-facilitator, yoojin lee. as i write this, i realize we’ve never talked about a definition explicitly but the way she uses the term has influenced me to this operational definition:

coaching: in our own words

overview

a triune God with a twist

last night on our 3rd anniversary date, david and i were having a lovely conversation about spirituality spurred by our friend and teacher/mentor, gibrán. right before dinner, we got appetizers with him and he was sharing at one point in the convo about how core spirituality was in his relationship with tuesday (our love).

unleashing alternative futures: aya, our daemon

today was the day; we were going to meet her.