white supremacy culture = anxiety

a few months back, i was having a conversation with my friend and deep collaborator, maureen white, about tema okun’s white supremacy culture characteristics. a few days after that conversation, i had a realization:

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i want to steward a house or a retreat center

i have been excited about living alone for a long time and in a couple of different ways. for more than a decade i have been attracted to asceticism (i seriously debated becoming a monk when i was 19-21). and since breaking up with my last long-term partner (we broke up in 2015 after ~6 yrs together), i have been dreaming of living solo for a bunch of reasons:

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book list for lanard

for my cousin.

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protests are not a measure of your solidarity

content notice: written descriptions of violence.

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lovenote from a future beyond gender

in honor of the black trans folx whose lives were cut short in may/june 2020: riah milton, tony mcdade, rem'mie fells, nina pop, helle jae o'regan.

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