some accountability tips

here are my little tips on asking for accountability from friends/supporters. i wrote these up after a conversation with kathy lebrón in sept/oct 2019 and figured i’d share them more broadly, too. it was only this morning that i realized the accountability she and i were talking about is generally perceived as different than the accountability people talk about in the wake of harm… and yet… i think some of these tips and practices apply to both. #doupledipping

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2019/2020 winter pracrtices

slowing ramping up to these right now as fall comes to a close. will be in full effect winter solstice (21 dec) to spring equinox (20 mar). of course, there will be exceptions, but generally speaking i am committing to these practices/behaviors:

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tonglen

readings on the practice, tonglen

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toxic masculinity: two current problematic narratives

in the last few months, i’ve heard two narratives repeat that i just want to write out here. they have only happened in spaces that were segregated by gender and the space was assumed by most present parties to be all men.

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book review: post traumatic slave syndrome

post traumatic slave syndrome

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