some accountability tips

here are my little tips on asking for accountability from friends/supporters. i wrote these up after a conversation with kathy lebrón in sept/oct 2019 and figured i’d share them more broadly, too. it was only this morning that i realized the accountability she and i were talking about is generally perceived as different than the accountability people talk about in the wake of harm… and yet… i think some of these tips and practices apply to both. #doupledipping