my inbox zero routine

preface: this is quick and dirty write up of my current email practices. thanks to donna moodie for asking the question that inspired this post.

resources on feeling your feelings

feelings wheels

book review: amusing ourselves to death by neil postman

some thoughts on napping

in the last 6 months i’ve given 2 napping workshops and i’ve got at least one more coming up before summer. here are some thoughts that i’ve had before or in them:

grief thoughts on the first anniversary of caden's passing

• the time is now to start telling my family and close friends all the things i want to tell them. why wait?
• i want to set up hang dates with my nibblings asap
• it’s time to set up hang outs with all my friends and friend groups
• why is everything so dusty all of a sudden?!
• caden is my first nibbling lost. idk how i didn’t think about that as i’ve been committing myself to them but of course some of them will transition before me. oof. what a devastating thought. i can’t tell if this will impact how many nibblings i want to commit myself to but it definitely makes each commitment feel more weighty. signing on to responsibility for a nibbling means signing on to the possibility that they might die before me and then i will have to grieve them. (on the flipside, i guess by committing myself to them, if i have an impact on their lives and then i die first, they will have to grieve me… hm! what a conundrum…)